- Client-centred care
- Relationship focus
- Practical steps
About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch is a counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with a BACP credential and ten years of experience. He helps people deal with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns and life changes. Tom aims to make it easier to begin talking about difficult feelings and decisions.
Tom creates a calm space for clients to share thoughts without fear of being judged. He focuses on listening closely and responding to what each person brings in plain, straightforward language. Many people come to him for support with LGBT issues, communication problems and feelings of isolation.
His work also covers a wide range of relationship matters. These include affairs, separation, polyamory and other non-monogamous arrangements, and difficulties with attachment or abandonment. He also supports people exploring kink, BDSM and alternative sex culture and the impact these topics can have on closeness and trust.
Tom blends client-centred, psychodynamic and solution-focused ways of working. That means he pays attention to current needs, underlying patterns and practical steps clients can try between sessions. He respects each person’s pace and aims to find what helps them most.
Sessions are organised so people can fit therapy into everyday life. Tom notes most of his availability is between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT, Monday to Thursday. If you choose to start, the process begins with a short matching questionnaire and scheduling.
How these approaches shape online therapy
Client-centred therapy focuses on what each person needs in the moment. The therapist listens without rushing and helps people name their feelings and priorities, which can be useful for stress, anxiety and identity issues.Psychodynamic work looks at patterns that repeat in relationships and personal life. It helps people see how past experiences might influence current choices and emotions, useful for issues like attachment, abandonment and recurring relationship problems.
Solution-focused therapy concentrates on practical steps and small goals. It is often used alongside other approaches to identify what changes could make daily life easier and to track progress between sessions.
Finding the right mix of approaches is a joint process. Tom will work with clients to decide which methods fit their needs, goals and personal preferences. He listens to what matters most and adjusts the plan as sessions progress.
If you are considering online therapy, check the available session options before booking since specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online work can make fitting sessions into a busy week easier, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so therapy can be scheduled around work and daily life. Registered or accredited professionals, including therapists, use different ways of working online, and the choice of format will be discussed when you begin.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
10+ years
Credentials
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns can I bring to therapy?
Tom works with stress, anxiety and relationship difficulties. He also supports people with LGBT issues, loneliness, life purpose and many interpersonal problems listed in his profile.
What is Tom's therapeutic style like?
He combines client-centred listening, psychodynamic reflection on patterns, and solution-focused work to set practical goals. This mix is aimed at understanding deeper issues while finding steps you can try between sessions.
How long has Tom been practising?
He has ten years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and relationship concerns.
Where is Tom based and what credential does he hold?
He is based in the United Kingdom and holds a BACP credential as listed in his profile.
Can I work with Tom if I'm outside the UK?
Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.
What session formats does Tom offer?
Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are used.
How much do sessions cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Tom?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.